In every society, there is some method of dealing with the loss of a loved one. Therefore, it is important to expect what is expected of you. The most common sense of proper manners is to understand funeral etiquette. In this guide, we will discuss some of the most common dos and don’ts when it comes to funeral etiquette.
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DO: Share Your Condolences
While it is not easy to open up and share your words of sympathy, make an effort to do so. If you cannot be at the funeral service, make sure to keep them in mind when sending a card or a message for them to express our deepest sympathy.
DON’T: Use your mobile phone during the service
Always be sure to turn off your ringer and put it on silent to prevent any disturbance. A funeral is not the time to check our social media and notifications.
DO: Dress Appropriately to the Occasion
While the idea of wearing black is often the most common shade, you should still dress to impress and avoid any bright colors. Many countries wear the color of white while others wear red or yellow. Just be sure never to wear jeans and a t-shirt to any funeral service.
DON’T: Allow children to cause distractions
Starting from a very young age, children and death can be a touchy subject. However, if the funeral is for someone who was close to them, the decision to attend the service should be left up to them. If you feel that, it is not appropriate for your child to attend, leave them with a babysitter instead.
DO: Provide a thoughtful gift
While you don’t need to go overboard with the idea of gift giving, you will need to find suitable items that fit the occasion. Choose flowers, charitable donations, or even make a commitment of service to the family when they need it. It is the little things that are appreciated.
Follow these simple dos and don’ts to ensure that you maintain proper funeral etiquette. Funerals are a time of grieving, be sure to remember the good times to help soothe the healing process.